someone explain to me how like, “i don’t care about respecting rapists so yeah i’m going to misgender them or use transphobic slurs against them” is consistent and somehow not purposefully obtuse transphobia? like? do people respond with the same vigor to women rapists with misogynist slurs? gay murderers with homophobic slurs and language? non-white pedophiles with racist epithets? i’m just wondering. i’m curious.